For example, if you are seriously self effacing—as opposed to tongue-in-cheek self effacing—then your problem is self-valuing—one doesn’t seriously efface that which one values.*
If on the other hand you care about happiness but not enough to worship it then that is a spiritual issue—happiness should be sacred therefore it is sacred—one doesn’t not worship the sacred.
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